cuek itu perlu (avoiding is needs)

CUEK ITU PERLU (AVOIDING WERE JUST A NEEDS)
It's a story between man and woman perceptions (damn i luv the manipulation of perception)..
It's happening in the office, while we wan to finishing the desk to go home, A charming, handsome man, came up to doing something with one of the person, then my friends which is happening to be a girl... They look at him, and the man stare for a while making a very slight smile to perform his charm, walk like knight that already came from a greatest war, chopping the breast and bla..bla.. Bla performing that he was seen by my friends girls..
There it goes, my friends start making a micro expressions, the two of them looking for each other make some rolling eyes emotion and an inhaling signing they make some "sighh". And the man go out, we too going out for home , hahaha
at the spot that we always wait the cab, i hard some kind of blubblering bla..bla..bla edition which content was, mocking the man who was we recently met before office hours we ended..."oh my god i said, can u just please ended, let him be like that"
N then one of my friend said "it can't be like that dear, u must knew it was very annoying to see that man doing thing like that"
My others friens said to complete " we do know that he is charm, handsome etc, but hey u dont need to be overwhelmed pleased, it was just he was the only person that have a good looking in this world"
Than i say (while entering the cab) "but he is handsome right, are there any problems he showed a litte bit?"
"that's the problem" my friends argued back
"we do know he is handsome but hey, he dont need to make a nonverbal expression like that, eeewww"
N then i sad " well it's all up to you to perceived it unfortunately it might not that be real"
Bla..bla.blaa... Till home after a few minutes, my friend start a talking which is lead to the same story again
"oh come on" i said, "can u just let it, avoid it??, is there anything that he done making the both of you feels in big miserable??"

"no, but!!! I just dont feel it best for him showing up like that"

i said again
"it's his right to perform the way that he want to be"

My friends cut
"but it's our right to say something about him, wording him, analysing him"

I said sharply
"hei u dont have a right to evaluate people like that, once again i said u dont have it"
I continued
"hei, i do showing like u two argumenting others but this is too far to have an argument, for me i just say keep on my mind a slight tought, n it's end there."

My friends said
"well it might be the different between girls n boys, we talk about everysingle thing again n again, but boys dont"

I point my thought
" but hey, theres a few single thing that u musnt stay focused, the unimportant thing that didnt make u fell behind, sometimes u just need to avoid like that, let them be what they wanna be, please dont waste ur energy"

Well in this humanity world, there always perceptions i do prefer stay focusing what i will face straight forward.